“Love is blind” a word we hear and read about a lot in movies, novels, nowadays between friends, everyone is talking about the phrase “love is blind”. But let’s start first by trying to define this phrase. Blind love is when you love someone, it doesn't matter what they look like, or how they really act because love does not see flaws, and love makes one unable to see things as they really are.But is love really blind or we are the one’s who choose to make it blind!!!
I do think that we are the ones who choose to make it blind. If you want to see the truth you will see it clearly but if we don’t want (and that’s what usually happens), we choose to see its perfect side and we neglect the flaws.
As long as we are in love with someone we choose to see him/her as perfect as possible with no single flaw. But when problems happen we see him/her “PERFECTLY”. You see their flaws and you start to think who this person is, I don’t know him/her. Actually this is the same person whom we loved, he didn’t change a little bit, but we are the ones who choose to view him as the “perfect” person from the beginning. He is acting normally but we are shocked or hurt because we choose not to see this part of him from the beginning, and then we go running and blame it on Love and say that it is blind. No we are the ones who choose to make it blind.
Love was never blind so my advice to you is seeing the flaws before the merit, because if you can accept the flaws which are the disadvantage in this love, you will be happy with the merits of it.
Always remember see the “Imperfect person perfectly” and you will be happy.
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Love is blind because the feeling you have to ur partner makes you want to your relationship to be always forever, and that's the frist mistake we make. We should believe that no body will be beside your-self for good. Things jut happen and people change too. It's very hard how we always want to fall in love and when it just happened we got pain we never felt like it before.
ReplyDeleteYes maram that's true.. we should give excuses for others but not all the time.. sometimes we should stop to analyze and evaluate things in order to see everything clearly.. and thats lead you to a healthier relationship, and i am talking here about any form of relationship (friends, lovers, relatives)
ReplyDeletevery nice i can feel it
ReplyDeleteWhen it come to love it is not about finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly
ReplyDeleteTotally agree with you may, we are the one’s who choose to make it blind!!!
ReplyDeletethats soooooo true
ReplyDelete-Eman thank you:)
ReplyDelete-Abdelrahman yes thats so true
-yasmine yes i guess thats totally right we are the ones who choose to make any form of love a blind one
-kulood yes isn't it :)